Creator or Victim?

How do you take responsibility for your life?

Do you know what you want from life, and do you know what decisions and or behaviors will take you closer to what you desire?

Are you aware of what is actually in your control or can be influenced by you?

What do you feel are your responsibilities in life?

I believe my words, my behaviors, my actions and reactions, my efforts, my mistakes, my ideas and the consequences of my actions and reactions are all my responsibility. 

If we accept the responsibility for what we say or do, there is no deflecting blame onto others when things don’t go well. 

What I DO NOT believe are my responsibility are:

- other people’s words

- other people’s mistakes

- other people's beliefs

- other people’s ideas

- other people’s opinions and judgements

- other people’s actions and reactions

When we take responsibility for our own lives, and stop any blaming of outside sources, we become the creators, rather than the victims.